Thursday, December 9, 2010

Really LIVE!

“Every man dies. Not every man really lives.” William Wallace

What are you doing to live your life to the fullest today?  Every day we get so busy with work and busy with the day to day routine we forget to stop to love, appreciate, and live not for the urgent but for what matters like your family, kids, and spouse.  No one on their death bed say I wish I had worked more, I wish had watched more T.V., or I wished I live in Florida.  No people always say “I wish I had more time with my family” LOVE your kids today! HUG your spouse, and GIVE your life for what really matters.      

Friday, October 8, 2010

It's not my Fault

People "....know what they want," and when their way of getting it is not an option, "they think there are no options."
 "It's not my fault" Dr. Henry Cloud, Dr. John Townsend

All too often we believe that things in our life have to happen in a certain way like a relationship, work or family.  So when things don't happen the way we want them to we throw a little tantrum.  We try to force our way and make it happen our way but when it still doesn’t work we believe there are no options.  Now we believe it is impossible or that it is not meant to be.  This is furthest thing from the truth.  Do you remember playing with friends as a little kid and you wanted to play a game that required something you did not have?  Maybe you had everything except this one piece.  Did you just give up?  No! You just improvised.  As we have gotten older we forget how to substitute or improvise.  There is always a creative solution you just have to look for it.        

Thursday, October 7, 2010

Success!

"If you want to be successful, find someone who has achieved the results you want and copy what they do and you'll achieve the same results." Tony Robbins

There is no excuse that can be accepted for why you cannot achieve success in your life.  All you have to do is look for a model or a mentor and you can.  We all have choices. We may not always be able to control our circumstances but we can always choose how we react!  Choosing the I can and the I will versus the I can’t and I won’t. This is the beginning.